Global way of life has changed significantly over the last twenty-five years. It affects various aspects of our lifestyle - from the general way think education, finances, child and healthcare, even the manner we manage our families. This rapid change has the type, how we live our lives, including education, marked.
Single parent is defined as a parent (whether the woman or the man) the role of the maintenance of the nuclear family, because of death, divorce, separation or personal choice to do.
This type of education is an additional arm of traditional nuclear and extended family types that we have learned since childhood. Nuclear families consist of two parents and children who live in the same House.
Consists of two parents of large families, on the other hand, have children and aunts, uncles or grandparents in the same House. The number of single parent families in the United States have doubled since the 1980s.
Parent or guardian are the three main reasons for single: death of a spouse, divorce, and personal choice (unmarried minor mothers, choice of raising a family without partners, etc.). These causes have significant implications for the family way of life and emotionally require significant adjustments for the whole family. Feelings of anger, guilt and despair are typical for the spouse who is left behind.
Grief is that most of the individual links behind felt feeling. This can lead to depression, to lose control over their own lives. More adverse effects of sorrow leads to drug and alcohol addiction and even to death.
Studies have defined the 5 steps of grief:
(1) Denial - this level includes feelings of guilt and rejection. The usual response to this stage are feeling, "he is way easy and come back".
2 Anger – this level includes extreme anger against the person, the links, or died.
(3) Negotiations - this level includes to negotiate if the partner has died, or with a partner with God on negotiations in terms of change, what went wrong in the relationship.
4) Depression – this level includes close to recognizing the situation will not change. This is where begins the confirmation of what happen.
(5) Acceptance - is this phase, the recognition and acceptance of mourning and let go of the feelings of despair.
The effects of single parenting are typically not only by the spouse left behind, but for the whole family, especially children feel. Studies have shown that children feel is cheated, taken from disadvantaged and felt inadequate due to a parent separations have me.
To combat the pain of the single parent, the following tips have been proposed:
(1) Means maximizing all resources to the family care responsibilities - as a single parent. This means for all possible to solve creative solutions to a problem. No time others you should the blame for what happens is, but look instead for ways to tackle the problem.
An example is looking for alternative ways to transport for a child who for first day of school. Instead of screaming and moaning, should parents alternatives - looking for related, look to drop off the child to school the off that drop can child or work around the parent schedule.
(2) Successful a-parent families have family as first choice - her family as top priority. Means not Negotiables determine this and balancing commitments. Single parents without changing career decisions for the family in General.
(3) Communication - the parent and the child must open communication between the two of them, to know what the wishes and needs to meet each other, and these the wants and needs. Communication is the key to an open relationship. Clear lines of communication to promote an open relationship between parent and child.
(4) Cares - not is the parent control of his life, he might not control over / her child life. You should worry themselves physically, emotionally and spiritually. Takes a positive environment of hope and of love in the family guaranteed.
(5) Creation of you routine routines before the divorce or death should be kept, because this is only anchor the child, things have not dramatically changed. Walking tours of the Park, bed times read stories or the usual Christmas dinner should be continued even after the death of or divorce.
Single parent is defined as a parent (whether the woman or the man) the role of the maintenance of the nuclear family, because of death, divorce, separation or personal choice to do.
This type of education is an additional arm of traditional nuclear and extended family types that we have learned since childhood. Nuclear families consist of two parents and children who live in the same House.
Consists of two parents of large families, on the other hand, have children and aunts, uncles or grandparents in the same House. The number of single parent families in the United States have doubled since the 1980s.
Parent or guardian are the three main reasons for single: death of a spouse, divorce, and personal choice (unmarried minor mothers, choice of raising a family without partners, etc.). These causes have significant implications for the family way of life and emotionally require significant adjustments for the whole family. Feelings of anger, guilt and despair are typical for the spouse who is left behind.
Grief is that most of the individual links behind felt feeling. This can lead to depression, to lose control over their own lives. More adverse effects of sorrow leads to drug and alcohol addiction and even to death.
Studies have defined the 5 steps of grief:
(1) Denial - this level includes feelings of guilt and rejection. The usual response to this stage are feeling, "he is way easy and come back".
2 Anger – this level includes extreme anger against the person, the links, or died.
(3) Negotiations - this level includes to negotiate if the partner has died, or with a partner with God on negotiations in terms of change, what went wrong in the relationship.
4) Depression – this level includes close to recognizing the situation will not change. This is where begins the confirmation of what happen.
(5) Acceptance - is this phase, the recognition and acceptance of mourning and let go of the feelings of despair.
The effects of single parenting are typically not only by the spouse left behind, but for the whole family, especially children feel. Studies have shown that children feel is cheated, taken from disadvantaged and felt inadequate due to a parent separations have me.
To combat the pain of the single parent, the following tips have been proposed:
(1) Means maximizing all resources to the family care responsibilities - as a single parent. This means for all possible to solve creative solutions to a problem. No time others you should the blame for what happens is, but look instead for ways to tackle the problem.
An example is looking for alternative ways to transport for a child who for first day of school. Instead of screaming and moaning, should parents alternatives - looking for related, look to drop off the child to school the off that drop can child or work around the parent schedule.
(2) Successful a-parent families have family as first choice - her family as top priority. Means not Negotiables determine this and balancing commitments. Single parents without changing career decisions for the family in General.
(3) Communication - the parent and the child must open communication between the two of them, to know what the wishes and needs to meet each other, and these the wants and needs. Communication is the key to an open relationship. Clear lines of communication to promote an open relationship between parent and child.
(4) Cares - not is the parent control of his life, he might not control over / her child life. You should worry themselves physically, emotionally and spiritually. Takes a positive environment of hope and of love in the family guaranteed.
(5) Creation of you routine routines before the divorce or death should be kept, because this is only anchor the child, things have not dramatically changed. Walking tours of the Park, bed times read stories or the usual Christmas dinner should be continued even after the death of or divorce.
